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An apology to all my friends

As some of you already know, my so-called real life - which is always on a knife-edge anyway - has tipped over into barely controlled chaos. I won't bore anyone with the details, but essentially, for the past few months I've been hanging on by my fingernails, doing only the most urgent things or the things that help me de-stress. Because of that, I've neglected many of you. I want y'all to know that it's not because I don't care, but because I'm so frickin' tired. In particular: tianning, I tried to get to V, but the stupid theater didn't have it; peppimint, you're always there with a cheerful word for me, and I appreciate it, even if I've been lax about returning it; and fan_elune, I haven't even finished reading your Nano(!). There are many of you - too many to list here - who I've neglected. In fact, all of you. But it's only been in deed, not in thought. Folks, I'm not sure when I'll be back to my normal self. But I am thinking about you, I do care about you, and I do read your LJs even when I don't take the time to respond. Just bear with me. I'll never be able to make it up to you now, but then, you guys are so good, you won't expect it anyway.

*HUGS* all around.


Oh, darling, don't you worry about my Nano at all! You just take care of yourself. *big hugs*

Psst? I'm not exactly the most available of friends lately either, anyway, and I don't even have any good reasons for that. So, yeah. Here's my own apology.
*huggles and pats you* No apologies are necessary at all! We all know you're "hanging on by your fingernails" and understand. Just do what you need to do and take care of yourself, for heaven's sake!! If you need to vent or want a shoulder to cry on, you know where to find me. I may be a relentless talker, but I'm also a very good listener. *huggles you again*
Well, I don't feel the least bit neglected. If anything, I feel I haven't been a great friend for the past month or so while everything has been so crazy stupid. *HUGSHUGS* And don't sit and fret about me either! Just keep taking care of yourself.

I'm glad the AL crisis resolved itself, BTW. :-)
You've never neglected me, chick. You always offer such wonderful advice and give me a real boost. Please, don't apologise. I know that you care and think about me, just I do the exact same thing for you! No matter what you're going through, no matter what is happening in your life right now, please know that I will always be here to lend an ear. I'll be sending good vibes and loving thoughts your way in the hope that life will sort itself out sometime soon.

Hang in there, Kat!! **root root** I hope the way smooths out for you soon!! :)
Hey, you know we're always there. And that's good. Talk about neglect! I'm still not done with Aira!!! SHAME on me!

But your troubles....is there anything a wee tianning can do to help? Tangibly, like?
hee! I might change her name again. Now I'm thinking about Naia. btw, I was thinking about titling the thing "Redhand". (You know me, I like short, pithy titles.)

And thanks, but the only thing that could be done to help me would be to find me a job less than 2 hours away which also paid better. Everything else would be easy if I weren't so fatigued all the time. (*giggle* One of my ex-coworkers would be saying right now, "Would you like some cheese with that whine?"